An Improving Economy Can be Correlated to...What!?

Normally I don't watch the news. However, my mother is an avid watcher of such. Over the holidays I was up visiting family and staying with my mother. So naturally one evening the news was on, and I was half listening while surfing the internet. The New Year is approaching and the local news was reporting about a poll that had been taken to assess the general outlook of people regarding 2012. I was not listening well enough to catch if it was a national or local poll; I did manage to hear that 62 percent of those asked were hopeful that 2012 would be an improvement over 2011. I wouldn't say the optimism was overwhelming but at least on the positive side. Time will tell, of course.

Although I have to say, the following “news worthy” story really gave scientific clout to the optimism, at least of the male population. What, you ask, announced to America that the men are thinking happy thoughts about the future? Why, of course, it's the increase of sales for men's underpants - boxers or briefs! “They” say that there exists a subconscious correlation between when men buy underwear and their optimism in connection with the economy! Who knew, but there you have it. If you needed hope for the future, here is a substantial foundation to build your dreams upon and feel confident about the upcoming economic stability. Just thought you should know, in case you missed that meaty story on your news program. :-) Interestingly enough, while getting ready for bed tonight my husband talked about needing to buy some underwear, not a topic that comes up often! Plus, he had neither heard the news story nor read my post. Hmmm!

By the way, count me in the 62 percent. I think 2012 has to be better than 2011. If not, I may return to my ostrich ways! Actually, I'm quite excited for the coming year – changes are on the forefront and new adventures. Wishing you all a Happy New Year.

My Christmas Card!

I don't do Christmas cards. I love the idea of them. I love getting them, although I never feel entitled to them! That's not the reason they are sent, I know. :-) But getting my act together in time to get the cards out just doesn't happen.

Merry Christmas to all!

So this year I'm letting this post be my greetings to everyone. As I've mentioned the holidays this year have caught me rather out of sorts. But I don't want to miss out on expressing my thanks and joy for just being! Let alone I have the gift of friends and family throughout the year. You all are a treasure!

I wish you all God's best in the coming year, a wonderful, laughter-filled holiday time and hope. Hope is the message of Christmas and it's sent with love.

Simple Pleasures

Christmas is coming in less than a week! It doesn't really seem possible but, then again, I'd be foolish to deny it!! I've moved slowly this year into embracing the idea of it all.

Last night we went went out with a couple of other friends for wine and appetizers. Honestly, we decided on going out because to pull something together at one of our houses was more effort than any of us had the energy for. The important point was getting together, and it was delightful. I won't bother you with a detailed description of all the yummies we had! Although taste treats are always enjoyable, it's the company that matters.

Last night was the whole package of a "holiday simple pleasure." I appreciated the Christmas lights inside and just outside our window, reminding me of the season. Our order of food (all shared :-) ) was a wonderful mix of flavors. The atmosphere was warm, the wine warmed my insides, I relaxed and engaged in the conversation that ranged from travel to Christmas visitors, family to future plans.

For me, this shows the best of the holidays. It is simple, more intimate, relaxed and relational.

Distractions Anyone?

What are your top picks for fun things to do? I love traveling but that's not something I can decide to do in the afternoon, for example. It does take some planning and money! A walk on the beach is very cheap; but I don't want to be wrapping my coat around me or afraid I'll be blown away, so the weather has to cooperate. Going to a movie is always a good option, if there is something worth seeing, although I realize that is a very subjective point. We went and saw Arthur Christmas yesterday. It was a great choice for a number of reasons - seasonal :), light and funny with a bit of sentiment, and a wonderful distraction.

I have to say that distractions are quite welcome these days. Perhaps I am really asking what do you do to distract yourself, rather than asking about fun activities. This is to admit I'm struggling a bit. I'm beginning to realize the stress of the recent and still ongoing financial dealings. (I think hormones are helping me to realize the stress and I'm not sure that I'd really call it helpful!!)

In the last 5 years or so I've adopted another low-key activity, maybe I should say sedentary pursuit, that I enjoy. It's looking at real estate by surfing online. Weird, you think?! It kind of is! I do have to have some interest in the area for one reason or another to even look. Plus, I reason the intriguing nature of it for me has to do with the fact that I used to practice architecture. At any rate, this is a good distraction for me lately, as well. I've gone far a field lately in my browsing - Panama and Ecuador! It's interesting to me to see the life, culture and architecture of a different country through their real estate. I also have to say it takes me far away from my present situation. Sometimes I just need a break. You too?

Mornings Don't Always Come Easily!

I love being creative and the results of that creativity, whether it's mine or someone else's; however, like most people, I am not creative in all realms. I function best in the artsy arena but not the crafty one, for example. I also like words and perhaps craft a bit with them although the art of poetry is not my forte. I saw the following poem on another blog I follow, and although you'll never see any poetry from me, this captured the essence of many a morning for me. So I thought I'd include it for your reading enjoyment.  

I slept late.
I am a slug.
But now there's coffee in my mug.

I want to go back to bed.
The sleep won't leave my head.
But there is much to do today.
So I will drink coffee instead.

I was warm & cozy, all tucked up in my bed.
We should stay here all day long my body told my head.
But I refused to listen even though it begged and pled.
I arose, went downstairs and made coffee instead.


It's really perfect and makes me smile! Perhaps some of you can relate, too. The blog post I got this from originally you can find here. 

On the Lighter Side? Not so much but...

I had wanted my next post be a little lighter in nature. I even looked on youtube for something that might be funny and light. Either it was my mood or my sense of humor, but nothing really struck me as all that great. After that attempt, in my regular reading, I came across the following and found it quite applicable. Sorry, I wouldn't say it's light but hopefully uplifting. In the end, I found it hopeful and comforting.

“Some people like to regard themselves as 'realists.' You may have heard someone say, 'I'm not a pessimist, I'm a realist.' Maybe you have said that yourself. I have. The inference is that an optimistic person is not realistic. Accordingly, the only honest and correct way to view the world is to point out the deficiencies, difficulties and inevitable failures.”

This quote took me up short a bit as I have often described myself as a realist rather than an optimist. I've never thought of myself as a pessimist. Either way, I ended up saying, “Uh oh!” The document goes on to say the person with this realist attitude is a naysayer, one who ignores the positive, emphasizes the negative to such a degree that even words of encouragement are irritating; and they're cynical people. It continues with:

“The optimist says the cup is half full. The pessimist says the cup is half empty. The man of faith gives thanks that the cup is half full, and he marvels that God will either make the half cup sufficient to meet his need or miraculously refill the cup.”

I do want to be a “faith full” person. My current financial situation is what it is. There is nothing I can do to change it. Even though I was surprised by this turn of events, God wasn't surprised. The matter will be settled and I will move on into the future. God is there too! I trust him. I'm sad at times over the loss, and there are significant changes due to it. However, it's not the end of the world and I've learned valuable lessons! 


Document quote out of a reading from one of First Fruits of Zion publications.

Bumps Can Hurt

Today it is important to write about that for which I'm thankful. I suppose it's appropriate also because it's Thanksgiving week, if not the day! But why I need to write has nothing to do with the holiday, rather it's a choice to be grateful through setbacks in life. I've cried today. I've been angry. I've wanted to rage that - it's NOT fair. The past is haunting me so to speak but that's just it - it's the past. I can't do anything about it, make different decisions or put safeguards in place. I didn't do anything wrong although perhaps a few decisions I should have researched more. Some of the repercussions now are due to decisions made by others, totally out of my control. The affects are financial.

I could be an ostrich about the whole thing. I'm not above that! Although I have to say that in the long run, I've found it not all that helpful. What I need to remember is - it's only money. Really! Do I feel that perhaps my security for the future is a little shaken? If I'm honest, yes. But practically speaking it's impossible for me to secure my future. I have no idea what's coming, good or bad. My provision and stability really come from God.

So I choose to be thankful. I'm so thankful I have Brian to help me find my way through this; my home and food on the table are not threatened. I'm also thankful for sunshine; laughter; a lazy day; great food, conversation and friends. There is also that amazing, wonderful, comfort drink - coffee, which can be deliciously shared with a friend or sipped slowly in the quiet of the morning. Of course I'm so grateful that Brian asked me to marry him because he's a keeper! Life is good. As I've said before the adventure of life can have twists and turns, bumps and tunnels. I guess I'm just a little surprised they'd happen so soon. Silly me! :)

Life with Brian!

I have one word that describes life with Brian - awesome! No really! Perhaps you have deduced from my blog that I'm neither a particular romantic or prone to rose colored glasses. I wouldn't even call myself an optimist, rather a realist. Brian is more romantic than I am! Is Brian perfect? - NO. No one is! Is life perfect with him? Yes and no.

I said that I would write more about loving someone with a chronic illness (Gulf War Illness), so here goes. First, let me add another word that is very important, in our marriage at least. That is the word "flexibility." It is difficult to describe the various feelings and symptoms that Brian experiences, even for Brian. Suffice to say that he suffers, some days more than others, though no one would know it to look at him. Does he know when the bad days are coming? Generally not. Although, he does better or worse in differing seasons of the year. Due to the cold and greater number of storm patterns, winter is not his best season. However, there can still be good days during the winter.

So what does that all mean for he and I, together? We both need to be flexible. Sometimes we plan to do something but he wakes up that day and it's not a good one. OK, that activity is not going to happen that day. That's just the way it is. If Brian pushes himself on a bad day to do whatever because it's planned, it usually backfires. He could go into a crash which is more intense and lasts longer. It's so not worth it! Or, if the day and it's activity can be adapted so the pace is slower and more relaxed that sometimes works. With that in mind, the third word I've needed to incorporate more into my life is "spontaneity." (I think Brian was always more spontaneous than I.) When it's a good day then the activity will happen. We can't always know when that is. However, over time, I've learned not to be so disappointed when something doesn't happen because it will; I just don't know when. Plus, Brian will often make suggestions of things to do at the spur of the moment. Why not?! Take the adventure and the good days when they arrive. Planning can be overrated!

There is more to write, which I will, but we'll start with this.
Update: Part 2 of Life with Brian click here.

In Times of Jetlag

As I begin writing this, it's about a quarter to eight in the morning. I've already been awake for over 3.5 hours. I saw the time on that clock come and go. Trust me, these are not my typical hours!! The house is cold because the heater isn't programmed to come on yet. I've watched the sky grow bright and the neighborhood slowly come to life. Usually I watch the surrounding area shut down for the night rather than separately share with them a cup of very early morning coffee.

Often Brian is up at these wee hours of the morning but that is because he has yet to be able to go to sleep. Besides being negatively affected by cold weather, this inability to sleep is another aspect of the Gulf War Syndrome for him. I can't imagine. :( Although, thankfully, he has been able to sleep fairly well these past couple of nights.

As I deal with jetlag, these past few mornings have been very quiet and reflective. There certainly is no rush to move into the day since it really hasn't started (except on the east coast or in Europe)! Thoughts, prayers and activities take on a different tone or quality in the early hours for me. I feel settled, peaceful and also the longings for continued adventure, inspiration and growth come more easily to the forefront. Perhaps those feelings could be viewed as the antithesis of being settled and at peace. They don't feel opposite to me. I think it is because I feel settled, safe that I can allow those feelings to surface. I love the mixture; it's exhilarating! The questions or longings don't need closure for me, meaning - what is the adventure? What will happen in the future? I love it all because it's a hunger that keeps me looking, investigating and hopeful. How can I be disappointed in life since I'm actively participating in it?! I do expect tunnels, bumps and sharp curves along the road but...!

One of Life's Grand Events

The wedding day is past. What an event it all was!! Naturally, Sabina looked gorgeous, no surprise there! The wedding was amazing and for me the best part was that Sabina and Chris both said their vows in English and Polish. A more difficult feat for Chris and I was impressed. By the way, I didn't cry at the wedding - shocker! Just thoroughly enjoyed it. :)

There is something special about making the time for such a grand party afterward as opposed to rushing through a reception so the couple can escape. Of course I'm older but I'm not sure I would have had the stamina for it myself, as the bride! (I understand the party ended about 5 am!!) The reception was filled with food, dancing, singing, a skit where Chris had to “buy back his wife,” more food, and vodka – to the level to which each person was comfortable. For me personally, it was also a wonderful time to catch up with people I hadn't seen for years. Life marches on and there were many stories to share. I really appreciate the opportunity to get reacquainted face-to-face with old friends, so thanks Chris and Sabina for getting married!! :)

Cultural differences can show up in many varied ways from eating times, to major life event traditions, like weddings, to everyday priorities. I traveled with a few people one of them being Chris' step-sister who is 11. At the end of our time in Poland she makes the statement that she likes the actual travel part of traveling but not being somewhere new. As you know from earlier posts, I am the exact opposite of her. Of course, she is only 11 so things may change in the future. I love new places (or old ones I haven't been for a while) and find it fascinating how many ways there are to approach life. I work hard, sometimes harder than other times, to be open to new perspectives and ideas. I can't embrace them all since some ideas can be opposing to one another, but open in that I don't judge by thinking that's weird or strange rather just different than how I might do things. Challenges, new concepts and different priorities make me grow and open up my world. I have to say that sometimes the new ways are better than my old ones, or at least a welcome diversion! 

The whole trip was great. I was thrilled to be able to help Sabina in any way, just spend time with her, and see how a Polish wedding is done! Awesome and a lot of fun!

"Can you hear me now?"

Technology, by and large, is a wonderful thing...when it works! I love the fact that a video call is possible with Brian, from Poland to California! After all, I skpye once a week with Sabina, when I'm not in Poland. So I had some time this evening to give Brian a call. Talk about a frustrating time, as I did all too little talking with Brian! Most of the time he just thought there must be some sort of alien in my room. According to Brian, the charming picture he had of me didn't even have a nose on my face, and the unworldly sounds from my end ranged from those of a possible dog, alien (?) and a skipping record playing on too slow of a setting and definitely not as melodic! After over an hour of cutting in and out, "Are you there?" "You are frozen again." "Can you hear me now?" "NO, I'm losing you again!" Waiting to come back online, then redialing. I couldn't handle it anymore. Needless to say, my wireless internet connection was not the best! We sent our final messages via text. At least that's something.

The Closest to My Heart

I leave today for Poland! My girl, Sabina, is getting married!! OK, she's not "my girl" but the heart strings are definitely there. I'm going a week before the wedding so that I can be totally available to her. Granted at this point pretty much everything has already been done, but maybe she'll just need to get away and have a cup of calming tea (as opposed to coffee!) and we can have a chat. I've already seen her in her wedding dress and cried so that event is past. Not so sure it won't happen again, though! Wow, lots of emotions, all good ones for this wonderful happening.

Brian isn't going with me. :( He would love to be there that's for sure. Though this time of year, the fact that it's colder weather in Poland, would make for a miserable feeling Brian. Brian served in the Gulf War and is one of the many soldiers who returned with Gulf War Syndrome - the media's term. So life drastically changed for him and, in his case, cold weather does not help in the least. I will write more in the future about loving someone with a chronic illness but that's for later. You can also check out his blog - Brian's Gate.
I miss Brian already but am so excited for Sabina and Chris. Can't wait to give Sabina a big hug!

Perhaps a Different Kind of Drink!

Coffee in many forms is at the top of my list especially as a comfort drink. I don't suppose I can really call it comfort food but it certainly fits somehow in that category. It is that cup of Ahhh and a transcendent experience. This quote also puts it well:

Coffee is the common man's gold, and like gold, it brings to every person the feeling of luxury and nobility. - Sheik Abd-al-Kadir

However, even I realize that other drinks are more appropriate for certain occasions, moods, or times of day. My friend (mentioned in the last post) also gave me a recipe for Limoncello! How exciting!! I've heard of others making it, but I must confess that I bought the bottle I have now at Trader Joe's. Nonetheless, this could be a fun winter activity and thought I'd share it with you.

© 2011 ABC Television / the chew

easy

skill level

over 120min

time

more than 12

servings

$

cost

Mario Batali's Limoncello

Contributed by: Mario Batali

This thick sweet cordial dessert will hit the spot after a long and filling meal. Make a batch

today and enjoy it for weeks to come. Note: Mario Batali prepared this recipe differently on air

but for best results follow the procedures below.

4 Cup vodka zest of 10 lemons

2 1/2 Cup sugar 3 1/2 Cup water

ingredients

4 Cup vodka

zest of 10 lemons

Place vodka and zest in a sealable jar, like a mason jar and allow

to sit in a cool place for 4 days.

2 1/2 Cup sugar

3 1/2 Cup water

On the fifth day place 2 1/2 cups sugar and 3 1/2 cups water in a

saucepan and bring to a boil. Allow to cook 5 minutes, remove from

heat and allow to cool.

Add sugar solution to the vodka solution and allow to stand

overnight.

Strain through a layer of cheesecloth in a conical sieve, pressing

the solids firmly. Strain again through a second layer in the same

manner.

Chill and allow to stand 1 week. Serve very cold.

Stepping Outside of the Box

OK, if you like coffee, you might want to go get a cup because this could be a long one!
A few communiqués from a friend have got me thinking. She had been catching up on my blog and so touched on a few subjects. She and I have talked about in the past how we often feel different, like we don't always "fit." Those feelings have certainly been around the last couple of weeks, in particular. They come and go in intensity, but they have been a part of my life for a long time. Perhaps there is a new book for me to read which she mentions:  

“Women Who Run With the Wolves”, by Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés. 

My friend also writes - "In the book she's talking about our (women's) need to find our "wild" self. Wild meaning natural, as God created us to be with all the innate intuition and other spiritual gifts He intended us to have, but that our culture, etc. (especially in America, Western society) has put down. ... Beyond being Christian and "not of this world", much of what she writes gives me a better understanding of why I've always felt like I don't really "fit" often even with committed Christians whom I admire. I think I've always been a "wild" woman."

I like that about her, my friend, and I can relate! There is nothing wrong with the status quo. I enjoy many things in life from the creative side to the mundane (as I know I have talked about - see my labels "creativity"). But there are these "niggles" and a sense of adventure that keep rising to the surface. These thoughts that make me think, "I must be crazy!" and that buck the status quo. So much of the structure we live in seems artificial and forced. Am I an anarchist? NO. Boundaries are good and important in many areas and ways. However, I do think there is greater freedom than our structures allow.

Choosing to step out of some of those structures, does require some extra effort for community living which I do feel is quite important. But I want community which has no agenda, isn't forced or timed, and is truly enjoyed by everyone. Unfortunately, I feel that is very difficult to find within many structures we have set up in our culture. There is nothing wrong with the structures necessarily and if people find them satisfying - great!! For me, I'm left wanting. I'm not sure what the answer is, and I certainly would rather be part of a solution than just point out problems. Though it seems, there are only a few of us who don't really "fit." Perhaps that's the adventurous and/or creative side of me and I'm OK with that!

The image shown here is the completed puzzle of the "nine dots." The challenge is to connect the dots, yes, all of them, with only four straight lines. The catch is you can't lift your pencil from the puzzle. It's impossible to do without going beyond the confines of the "box."

My friend was also hopeful that she was not one of the "snooty" missionaries that I talked about in my post entitled OK, Let's Talk about It... I was surprised to see the word snooty and thought - did I really write that?! Sure enough!! Perhaps that was a bit brash and snooty of me! Sorry. As I think about it, it is possible to chalk up some of those past impressions to youthful over exuberance?! She gives her thoughts: "I, too, have had my struggles over folks' expectations but I'm still glad for the opportunities God provided for me to show His love and encourage a few people along the way. For the most part, the missionaries with whom I've worked have lived very graciously in the culture to which the Lord sent them. However, when I was in Greece working in Albania I had a couple of single, female missionaries impress me negatively... so much so that I told my mission director that I didn't want to continue on the mission field if that was how I would end up." Expectations are tough especially if we don't even know that we have them. I hope I continue to grow in grace.


Image by Dave Kawalec

Coffee Granita Recipe!

Amazingly enough I came across another blog Philz Coffee Blog which talked about the same cold coffee treat that I had in Rome! (Part 1) The same cafe, evereything. He posted a recipe which I hope comes close to the original. With this recipe, there is a twist - cardamom in the whipped cream. I'm copying it here as well for your convenience. It's nice to know I'm not the only one on this side of the ocean who has enjoyed that wonderful taste.

OK, I just found another blog that reviewed the recipe at The Mom Chef. She is a self-professed coffee snob as well. I'll be sure to take her suggestions to heart as it sounds like this recipe might pale in comparison to the original. If you make it, let me know how it turns out!

Coffee Granita with Cardamom Whipped Cream
This recipe is from Bon Appetit’s April 2010 issue.

Ingredients
* 2 cups water, divided
* 1/2 cup plus 1 tablespoon sugar
* 1 1/2 tablespoons instant espresso powder
(instead of using espresso powder, try making a really strong brew of Turkish or Philharmonic)
* 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
* 3/4 cup chilled heavy whipping cream
* 1/4 teaspoon ground cardamom

Preparation
*Bring 1/2 cup water and 1/2 cup sugar just to simmer in heavy small saucepan over medium heat, stirring mixture constantly until sugar dissolves. Stir in instant espresso powder and vanilla extract. Remove saucepan from heat; stir in remaining 1 1/2 cups water. Pour into 9x9x2-inch metal baking pan. Freeze mixture 1 hour; stir, mashing any frozen parts with back of fork. Cover and freeze mixture until firm, at least 1 to 2 hours longer and up to 1 day. Using fork, scrape granita, forming icy flakes. Return granita to freezer.
*Beat cream, cardamom, and remaining 1 tablespoon sugar in large bowl until peaks form. Divide granita among bowls or glasses. Top granita with whipped cream.

(photo from The Bitten Word)

Life Roads also Twist and Turn

I talked recently about the roads of the Amalfi coast and how they cling to the hillsides. They slink their way along the curves of the hill, matching undulation for undulation. The cliff on one side and the houses piled up on one another on the other. Sometimes there are tunnels and - blackness, yet, it doesn't last forever and in time you'll burst out into the sunshine.
Yesterday my business partner and I met with our accountant to discuss the steps of closing down our business. The business has been limping along for quite a while now, mainly due to lack of attention on both our parts. It's not that we didn't care about it, but life was so different when we started it. Almost 4 years ago when it started, neither one of us were married and goals were not the same. Did we fail because we are closing it down? I don't think so. It's a neutral action - neither good or bad. It's just that life has changed. Do I understand what all the twists and turns of the business were and what it was all about? No. It wasn't necessarily cheap but do I regret anything? No. My business partner and I were friends first and we still are friends!! So that's a success! :)
Transitions or changes need to happen sometimes and if I hold on to the past there isn't as much room for the future or even the present! A tunnel certainly is a transition from one part to another. I don't know what's on the other side yet but new views and vistas are coming. I can count on it!

Coffee - It is an Event!

Coffee is real good when you drink it it gives you time to think. It's a lot more than just a drink; it's something happening. Not as in hip, but like an event, a place to be, but not like a location, but like somewhere within yourself. It gives you time, but not actual hours or minutes, but a chance to be, like be yourself, and have a second cup. - Gertrude Stein

We all like it a bit differently - coffee that is! part 2

I've finished my morning coffee - an absolute necessity to really move into the day. Now I find myself ready to finish the post about my coffee evaluations of our trip. The coffee juices are flowing!

Poland - my experience this trip is limited only to one cafe but it was a strong contender after asking for some modifications. Their cappuccino with an extra shot was quite tasty! Their cold coffee treat gets second place, again, after adding another shot. This treat was more like an affogato or an ice cream sundae with espresso topping - quite yummy. I'm hoping things have changed within the home. I quit drinking coffee in peoples' homes back in the late 90's because almost everyone drank instant (at least the people I visited)! I tried for a while but just couldn't do it and switched to tea when visiting. However, that was a long time ago, so it all could be quite different.
Spain - this country wins for most normal, delectable coffee. I throughly enjoyed their cafe con leche or coffee with milk, steamed milk that is but not frothy. Just plain good.
Switzerland - although we visited only a week, at one point, I lived there for about 9 months. Never in my entire time there did I see any Swiss person take their coffee with an equal part of hot chocolate, as noted in my "part 1" post. I don't know where "they" got that information but it certainly was not my experience.
The Swiss take their coffee VERY seriously and put a lot of money behind it. I had a coffee at the bar of a 2 star, chain hotel and the guy was telling me that their machine, a smallish one of this type, cost "like the price of a small car." Yes, he said it cost $15,000 - yup that's dollars!! I know another person there who's home espresso machine cost the equivalent of $1,800. With all that said, I had the most consistently outstanding coffee and espresso in Switzerland - roll one's eyes back fantastic! They do come in third for cold coffee treat - coffee ice cream with a coffee/chocolate like syrup.

Now you know how I like my coffee - with milk. I prefer espresso and to drink coffee is a necessity in the morning, for sure, but a pleasure whenever I drink it!! So how do you like your coffee? Is it a necessity? Or just a pleasure? Are you an espresso fan or do you prefer brewed coffee?

We all like it a bit differently - coffee that is! part 1

Jetlag is receding. I'm thankful for that! Naturally coffee has played a part in this transition time, helping me stay up as late as I can to adjust as quickly as possible. I ran across an assessment of some Europeans, plus a few other groups as to how they enjoy their coffee. Having only been in Poland, Switzerland, Italy and Spain this trip, I can only evaluate from my perspective on those four countries. But first, the info I found on another site:

The Italians drink their espresso with sugar, the Germans and Swiss - with equal parts of hot chocolate, the Mexicans - with cinnamon, the Belgians - with chocolate. Moroccans drink their coffee with peppercorns, the Ethiopians - with a pinch of salt. Coffee drinkers in the Middle East usually add cardamom and spices. Whipped cream is the favourite amongst Austrians. The Egyptians are extremely fond of pure and strong coffee. They seldom add sugar to it, nor milk nor cream. They serve unsweetened coffee to mourners and sweetened coffee at weddings. The Italians are the unrivaled World Masters of Espresso. 

For this post I'll write only about Italy. I enjoyed both espresso and cappuccino while there. I will never challenge the concept of the Italians as World Master of Espresso! I did have mine with sugar but did not enjoy it as much as some others. That does not speak to the quality of espresso but rather the fact that I prefer my coffee with a bit of milk or cream. The cappuccino was delightful but as usual for me it was a bit weak - too much milk! Oh, the trials of a coffee snob! (That's me!) They do win hands down on the cold coffee treat!! OMG! The scoopable frozen coffee (but not ice cream) with whipped cream was absolutely awesome!! They called it a 'granita' but it isn't very similar to what we call granitas. Ours are more liquid, sweeter and come out of a special machine. Not these and I'll take these any day! Rome won the gelato contest and Rome again wins for cold coffee treat. Both of those places were around the Pantheon square. If you want specifics, let me know.

More next time on the other countries. :)

Return to Normalcy

So, I had a talk with "this man." As it turns out, Brian has been here all along. He still thinks the taste of coffee is bitter and he does NOT like it. I was rather shaken by the apparent radical shift of my reality, but life has returned to normal. Just wanted you all to know!

We are wrapping up our time in Europe. It's been a glorious trip without a doubt. Madrid has some amazing sites, buildings and lots of people! Although, now is the time for us to return - perhaps to normalcy, but I question if we ever were really in that state! In any case we're homeward bound.

Just in Case

For those of you who might need an updated photo to recognize Brian, I've included a couple to help you out. I'm still not sure where he is and perhaps you'll understand why after looking at the pictures! So thanks for keeping an eye out for him.

one of my favorites!

What Happened?!

I think somehow there must have been a switch at the Basel airport. I'm not sure who I'm traveling with anymore! Or, in other words, who is this man and what have you done with my husband?!

For the last 2 mornings "this man" has been taking sips off my morning coffee!! If you know Brian then you know this person can't be my husband! The one who can't even stand the smell of coffee, let alone drink it. (I married him anyway!) So if Brian arrives home before me because he got on a different plane, let him know I'm OK and looking forward to seeing him again! :)

Time is Flying!

Switzerland has come and gone. :( It was a very full time, filled with wonderful people, conversations and more delectable food. There was no time to write, or maybe I should say there was no room to write! My head and heart were too full to get anything down on paper. It was a great time of introducing Brian and getting caught up on the lives of my friends there. It had been 4 years since I was last there and we all just seemed to pick up where we left off! I love that!! I'm still processing much of our time in that gorgeous country and enjoying the 'flashbacks' of sites, sounds, faces and snippets of conversations.

We arrived in Madrid at 12:30 AM last night. Neither Brian or I have been to Madrid before so it held a different kind of excitement than all the other places. As we were driving in to town, in the dark, I remember thinking that it was difficult to have any first impressions – couldn't see much!! Like most cities, the airport is a bit out of town. However, there was no mistaking it when we truly arrived in the city. And oh my gosh, all the people! It was one o'clock in the morning and EVERYBODY (so it seemed) was still out and about. I thought Rome had a nightlife!! Madrid is something else! It will be fun and interesting to explore this city and see what it holds. Already I've had a great pastry treat! :) Yes, it appears I'm eating my way through Europe! :)

So Many Things

So many days of sunshine, wearing my sunglasses, enjoying a breeze when it comes. Where do we go today? Or do we just enjoy our spacious terrace, being apart of this small village? Naturally, there were excursions! We visited 3 different port cities of various sizes, each with their own unique flair. It's amazing to see how they have built these cities. The houses are all on top of each other, stacked up the hillside clinging to the rock. Great photo opts but no shot really does it justice. Due to the weather and a lust for more, we were compelled to try the gelato in each place! Comparison 'shopping' is important. Actually, Rome wins, the place on the Pantheon square. :)

Then, there was the day on the boat, a wonderful day. So many sites to drink in, caves to swim in and, of course, photos to take! This fine day stretched on not because it was something to be endured but rather because it was so glorious in fun, food, laughter, sun and warm water. Did I mention food? The day culminated in a grand feast. It was described as a 3 course meal with local wine. Well, in all honesty I think it was closer to 8 courses. (My heart and stomach want to say it was 16 courses so I've consciously cut that in half to be realistic!) The clean plates for the next course just kept coming (and our wine glasses were not allowed to be empty)! For at LEAST 3 of those clean plates I figured it had to be dessert – but NO!! Something else delectable was placed before us. I don't remember eating so much for a VERY long time. This was like being in the house of an Italian that loves to cook. It was a full-body experience in many ways!! (Sigh)

WOW

Not much time left on our internet connection but... I had to say what a wonderful day on the Mediterranean we had yesterday!! So fine and what food as well. More later!! :)

A Pizza a Day...

...helps keep the waistline away!!

It's all very tasty but...enough said! :)

Not the Typical

As I find myself on the terrace content just to soak up the sites and sounds around me while reading occasionally from my book, I feel compelled to believe I'm not a typical tourist. I don't enjoy tours, visiting museum after museum, or a planned schedule of events that maximizes the tourist sites. Now, for example, I did go to the Vatican museum in Rome and St. Peter's – wouldn't have missed it for the world, even though it was my second time! But it was on my terms and at my pace. On the other hand, I also feel that relaxing at a cafe in the afternoon with an iced coffee (in Europe that usually means with ice cream! Yummy!) is as much about the culture as visiting sites. I love people watching and drinking in the pace of life.

We are on the Amalfi coast now for 2 weeks. So far we've done only one excursion to Sorrento. We took a boat there, making a stop at the island of Capri, and rode the bus back over the mountains. Each mode of transportation giving a unique experience and showing us different views. Sorrento is probably the biggest city on this piece of land that juts out into the Mediterranean. We enjoyed the shopping and energy of the bigger city.

Otherwise we have just explored on foot our little village of Praiano and enjoyed our wonderful terrace. While lounging on the terrace, about mid hill from the sea, I overlook the Mediterranean, watch some windsurfers and see the fishing boats and transportation boats come and go. I look at the houses around and see how they've decorated their patios, marvel at the vast differences in construction techniques and listen to scooters (the preferred mode of travel – easier to park!), delivery trucks (miniscule in comparison to ours) and the foreshortened buses as they go by periodically. Of course, I can't forget the church bells that peel their happy song (in my opinion) at indeterminate times! Even with the occasional rumblings and/or clanging bells it is peaceful and relaxing.

There are a few more places we will venture out to but there is no rush. Pompeii, water caves by Amalfi and Positano are on the list of possibilities and maybe some others. This is an awesome trip and as my mother would say, “Whatever you do, it's all gravy!” Praiano, I think, is designed to slow the pace down. So I'm embracing that! I'm even letting go in regard to the vanity I have about my hair!! :) I'm on vacation, after all!  

A Glimpse of Praiano

From our Terrace

Also from our Terrace

Twists and Turns

The title says it all when it comes to life on the Amalfi Coast. There are a few places along the coast that allow for a traditional beach setting, but by and large cliffs rise out of the sea. Streets and houses alike cling to the the rocky surfaces providing magnificent views.

Atrani - just one example, more to come!

We had a very full and exhausting travel day on Saturday. Exiting our apartment in Rome we found a taxi right at our doorstep even though we hadn't called for one! Piling in, we headed for the train station eager for our 2.5 hour ride to Salerno. I love train travel in Europe. You can see so much from a relatively comfortable seat – parts you'd never see otherwise, catching glimpses into the lives of those along the way. After arriving in Salerno we easily found the port and the boat we would take to Amalfi. All was going without a hitch! The boat ride was cool and satisfying just knowing I was on the Mediterranean Sea, plus the picturesque towns along the way, nestled between cliffs.

Once in Amalfi we were unable to catch the first bus because it was too crowded. Oh well – sit down and have a gelato!! Those are just the burdens to bear due to travel. :) We caught the next bus, told the bus driver the name of the stop we wanted and settled in for the ride. Certainly a lot of twists and turns on this bus route. The driver was less than helpful. He never called out any stop names, and when we finally pressed the stop button, ran to the front and made him open the door to talk to him, we find out our bus stop was 5 minutes ago!! Well, our hosts found us (no car) and we had a LONG way to walk (UPHILL) to get to our place. We're not sure that any stop we would have gotten off at would have provided an easy way. As I said before the houses cling to the cliffs, streets zig-zag up the hills or stairs are available which constitute 6 stories or so before reaching a street to cross and then more steps!

Traveling is an adventure. This is one of those stories to tell and as time goes by the temperature will be hotter, the way even longer and the uphill road will basically be like rock climbing with our suitcases strapped to our backs. (Actually Brian had both of the suitcases strapped to his back – my hero!!) After resting, we are enjoying the place thoroughly!

Further South

Well, tomorrow I go further south than I've ever been before. In Italy that is! We are off to the Amalfi coast. My posting could be a bit more sporadic as we will have no internet at our place. But please stay tuned, I will find a way!!

Chalk up another one!

Oh, the culinary pleasures of traveling! It is quite warm in Rome; so what is called for in the afternoon? A very simple but delightful cup of frozen coffee. It's not ice cream but scoopable - 2 scoops even, with a portion of whipped cream on the bottom and the top, served with a spoon. Yummy, refreshing and rejuvenating!! :) The many delectable forms of coffee just keep coming!

Rome has a delight and/or surprise around every corner, it seems, and sooo much history! Naturally, I revel in the architecture both grande and vernacular. My camera is drawn to the magnificent structures and street scenes. (Just a few pics!)

Street scenes above

Interior of the Pantheon

Pantheon at night

Last night we went out for a walk to enjoy the sites all lit up in their finest! At night the city and it's monuments have a very different atmosphere. Rome is warm, inviting and decidedly social! The city starts to come alive at about eight. After dinner one night, around 9:00 we were treated to a shot of Limoncello. A delicious lemon liquor originating from Italy. Again yummy! Also, it was very warm and inviting of them!! So we've had tequila in Mexico, plum vodka in Poland and now Limoncello in Italy - all freebies even! Do we look like lushes? :P
At any rate, we are enjoying the "flavor" of Italy in so many ways.

Chocolate Like Never Before!

The first leg or our journey is over. :( I already miss Sabina and our morning coffees together. But I am a little concerned we ran her ragged. Needless to say, she treated us to a wonderful time. On the final day we spent the afternoon in Krakow. It's a great city, full of energy, astounding architecture, fun shopping and lots of memories for me.

Sabina had an absolutely fantastic idea to wrap up our time before we were off to the airport. We went to a “chocolate restaurant” (my terminology). All I can say is OMG! Brian and I split two different treats that were heavenly and beyond true description! Brian got a trio of drinking chocolate – dark, milk and white chocolate. WOW! It was like melted chocolate bars or it actually was, not sure. Nothing like our hot chocolate I can tell you that much. Heaven in a cup! Then I got a sundae – chocolate ice cream with chocolate sauce and chocolate crunchies. Of course, whip cream atop. There was little conversation only moanings and groanings of an ecstatic nature.

This Polish chocolatier has existed since 1851. Over the years, I would say they have reached perfection! I would have taken a picture, but by the time I thought of it they were all gone!! Yummy! Another incredible memory to add to my Polish experience.

Now it's on to gelato (fabulous ice cream) in Rome and (of course) Italian coffee. :)

Different Kinds of Signs

I'm back in Poland - the first leg of our trip. Polish is returning to me fairly easily when it comes to every day little things but deeper conversations are a bit out of my league now. I'm doing a bit of translation for Brian in various situations. This brought back to mind some hilarious signs that people have made note of from their travels.

Direct translations don't always work!! One I saw here in Poland (my favorite one) is posted on a door that you pass while in line for a gondola ride up a mountain. It reads: "Exit 10 minutes before departure. Please wait." Not sure what I'm suppose to do! :-/

Others signs I've heard about - on a menu in Switzerland: "Our wines leave you nothing to hope for." So, here's to a depressing night out!! Another one, not sure of the country, also on a menu: "The manager has personally passed all of the water served here." In that case, I'll pass!! :)

Languages can be a tricky thing! I also remember one of my faux pas when talking to a guy who was about 15 to 20 years younger than I. At one point in the conversation, I told him that I thought he had great potential. (All in Polish, of course.) Well I find out later that I used the word for sexual potency rather than communicating he has a promising future!! Boy, was I embarrassed after the fact!! :-o  Ooops! I do remember he was all smiles after my comment!

The Prep

Traveling again so soon? Not the ideal but this is just how it's happening this year. How can I really complain!!?

The past week, primarily, has been all about the preparation for such an extensive trip. I even started packing 5 days prior to departure. This is virtually unheard of for me, the one who throws everything together the night before. Though at my age, that kind of early prep can backfire because I can't remember what I already packed when I'm finishing things up the day before! Did I mention I hate packing?

I am no longer enamored with any aspects of "prep" that leads up to the arrival at my destination. That includes the actual travel time. The glamor of all that has long since lost any appeal. Having lived a total of 12 years in Europe, I've done a lot of traveling. I still love new places, visiting old friends, people watching, and experiencing other cultures and foods! So, I really am looking forward to the adventure of it all. In addition, I'll be very happy when the "fullness of prep" is done!

A Few of The Signs...

... that you drink too much coffee!

Your birthday is a national holiday in BRAZIL!
Instant coffee takes too long.
You can thread a sewing machine while it's running!
You short out motion detectors. (Makes me think of Hammy in Over the Hedge!!)
Cocaine is a downer.

Just a few thoughts to ponder :) It's a fine line to walk but so worth the risk. Ahhh coffee, nectar of the gods.

A Cup of Ahhh

Perhaps a trip to Brazil is in order! :)

OK, Let's Talk about It...

Let's face it, we all have impressions or stereotypes of certain vocations. Sometimes I don't even realize I have them until I'm face with an apparent contradiction.

Now...the missionary stereotype, I have been a missionary and I've heard the spontaneous gasp followed by the hand covering mouth because I said something "unmissionary" like. (Unfortunately, I can't remember the specifics anymore.) Or, there was the surprised, raised eyebrow look when I accepted a glass of wine. Of course, if they thought I shouldn't have any wine then why offer it!? Even though I'm no longer in that field, if someone learns of my background it seems (at times) that there are still certain expectations. Nothing is said but... Honestly, I hope that I do not conform to the stereotype in any way, shape or form. In the past, when a missionary I secretly enjoyed it if I shot holes in someone's picture of a REAL missionary.

So what do I think is the picture of missionary? Well, a little crazy, if the truth be told! (Missionaries are all about telling the truth, you know!!)  Or, at least weird like a geek but in a "spiritual" way, holier than thou, maybe even snooty in that regard. Lastly, they're not very real - no one you could easily relate to. Perhaps that's a little on the mean side, but at least someone who is a bit odd. After all, who does that kind of thing? And you can't talk to them about real life stuff!

If my impressions are wrong, I'm very open to hearing about it!

I think I'm quite real. My language isn't perfect, in fact, some words seem very appropriate at times! I'm not that into churches - not that I think they are bad either, but they aren't always the best answer. I want a sense of community or family in my life, people who will support and challenge me regarding my thoughts and actions. Unfortunately, many churches don't really have that kind of everyday community life. Thankfully, I don't have an "aura" of spirituality about me, but hopefully people think I'm nice! It's the little things in life. I love what Alejandro said in the Mask of Zorro, "I'm in search of the miraculous in everyday life." So I get out and live life!  I love it, but wish my knees were more inclined to the adventure of it!!

Traveling

Why does it seem so crazy upon returning from a trip? I have to say the first night was awesome!! A meal we enjoy though it's not fancy - just easy(!), healthy and good. :) Cuing up one of our favorite shows; relaxing with a glass of wine. And, in my opinion, our bed is the most comfortable bed in the world!! It has been a bit busy since with unfinished projects like bathrooms, preparing for guests (hence the need for bathrooms!), dentist appointments and catching up with people. All enjoyable, except the dentist, but not necessarily is it all working like clockwork!
Ah well, I love the adventure of traveling, new sights and sounds, seeing old friends, the FOOD and photo options. It's good to get out of the routine. On the other hand, coming home and embracing some of those routines was also a joy! Traveling can give me such an appreciation of so many different things - old and new.

Up North

Seattle is a delightful destination and a great place to be from! I love the energy of the city but hate the traffic. It has changed in a lot of positive ways in my absence - the traffic being the only downside. On a sunny day few places rival it's beauty with 3 lakes within the city limits, views of Mt. Rainier, the Olympics and Cascade mountains, and it's on Puget Sound. No, it does not rain all the time and it can have a quite pleasant summer, though usually not in June. The best months are August and September. The first half of July is iffy. Even though I love to visit and enjoy Seattle thoroughly, I prefer to live in California or a more consistently warmer place!
It's not a snooty big city. People are still relatively laid back, often bike to work, and there's a coffee place on every block!! Obviously my kind of place in that regard!! Plus, you can go to one of the parks around Lake Washington and see turtles sunning themselves, blue herons (although very shy they give you a glimpse often), beaver dams and other wildlife within the city. Today, crossing over Lake Washington on the floating bridge a bald eagle was atop a street lamp surveying the scene! Amazing and wonderful. Enjoying my trip!

My HHI choice

I've been up in Washington visiting family. In reaction to that trip I've thought even more about Merida. No, not because of family and getting away!! :) It's all in response to the weather! I have to say we've had some decent weather, especially for WA,  but also some rain and clouds.
I'm sure you've all been waiting with baited breath (what an expression!) about which Merida house I'd pick. They all have their positive points. I'd scratch off #3 even though it already has 2 bedrooms because of the odd configuration. I don't like the idea of walking down the narrow outdoor "hallway" to get to the backyard and future pool. Plus, it appears that the 2nd bedroom is truly separate with no bathroom but in the main house.
With the rest of the choices, it gets more tricky. #4 could possibly be on the top of the list but it's the most money and still needs work - finishing off the kitchen and a wall to make the first bedroom.
#1 is the lowest initial output, the most work to be done, but we'd have more house in the end. There certainly would be unknowns and adventures along the way!
#2 I guess comes out on top. More than livable now with room for potential pool and other bedroom. I'll miss the high wood beamed ceilings but it's still a great choice!
Of course if I were to actually walk through them I could feel totally different! Someday perhaps I'll have the full experience! :)

And the Runner Up Is...

Actually, there is a tie for second place! Both are renovated by the firm Worldstudio International and provide a nice nice mix of traditional and modern designs. They come in a whopping 70 to 75 thousand dollars under Casa Chablis but are smaller to be sure. I have to say there are a number of wonderful properties to be had in Merida if money is not an object. The first is La Cochera. Brian's "beef" with this one is that the kitchen is not adjacent to the main outdoor patio and eating area. But in my mind the kitchen is so great and I can handle just a small eating area (with fountain!) next to the kitchen for my morning coffee!

The second one is great as well. Architect Henry Ponce did the renovation and the interiors were done by Worldstudio International - killer combination! The front rooms have a wonderful feel and I love the arches. It comes furnished which is a plus but I could really do without the "bumble bee" chairs! There is no video for this one but you can see the listing of this home in the barrio (neighborhood) of La Ermita.

#1 Choice If...

Before I give you my take on the 4 properties, I want to share with you our top favorite place in Merida - if only we could afford it!! :) It's called Casa Chablis by architect Henry Ponce. It seems the perfect solution with the beauty of form and function. I love the indoor/outdoor hallway with the long fountain. The rooftop area for entertaining or just enjoying the evening breezes is amazing, let alone the pool and patio area. There is a separate floor for the master suite which gives privacy. The only small negative is that it doesn't have double sinks for the master bath. i suppose I could live with that! :) I'd love to wander through it for myself!

My Own Version

I'm back with colonials! I thought I'd do a severely adapted version of House Hunters International. My adaptations include 4 choices not 3, I'm not buying now (may never), plus, I've never even been to Merida but have become very intrigued. Even though this vacation / half and half living may never happen I'm trying to pick ones that might half way be realistic. Probably in another post I'll put videos of my 2, over the top, favorites - way out of our league! In the end, we'd like a 2 bedroom and 2 bath place. After all, we want a place for guests!!
So, #1 is a clean slate, the cheapest but more work than any of them. We will be able to put our own personal stamp on it but it would take time. A big benefit of this one is the finished "guesthouse" - some place to sleep while renovating. http://www.mexintl.com/property/003343 It is close to a park and a market, although on the edge of the central area we'd like to be in.
#2 has plans for a second bedroom and a pool, so still work to be done but the rest is finished! http://www.mexintl.com/property/003304 It is closer to the center but it does have what appears to be an auto business across the street.
#3 is closer to the center than #1. The configuration is already a 2/2 so that's a plus. A pool is necessary for all of them. They are equal in that regard. http://meridahomes.com/eng_standard.php?id=268&offered=sale
Lastly #4, there are no plans completed but it still needs another bedroom and bath. What is in place is done nicely. http://meridahomes.com/eng_standard.php?id=332&offered=sale
I like them all and each has positive and negatives. If you want, you can weigh in on the options!

Internal Processor

That's what computers have - internal processors. I'm not a computer; nevertheless I process feelings, ideas and thoughts internally. How many bloggers are internal processors? I'm wondering if we are the majority or most likely the minority. Or it's just a mixed bag because it is more dependent on if we like to write. It doesn't really matter, although I'm curious.
I've decided to continue writing at least for awhile. I'm curious to see what will happen with me, and perhaps interactions and connections will expand along the way. Life is full of surprises and now is not the time to put pressure or expectations on myself about what this blog must be or should be. Hopefully you'll bear with me! :)

Blog Wonderings

Once again I've been thinking about posting, even sat down to do it a couple of times, but obviously the follow through wasn't there. I've been struggling a bit about the content of my blog and how relevant (or not) it is for others. If it's just for me, I could do a journal. Many blogs that I see are theme based, like "Moving to Merida". It's true that the name of my blog suggests an informal chat that could be about a myriad of subjects depending on the day, mood or obsession of the moment! :) I just want it to be real but not boring either! My life is not fast paced. I'm very content in life, but is there interest for others about my general musings? There hasn't been much chatting on the blog but perhaps my writing does not invite interaction. If I wrap it all up in a package then what's to comment on? But then maybe that's not the point either! Perhaps the nature of blogs is just to put out the 'musings' into the cosmic void for whatever the result might be. Do I even need to know if anyone is 'listening'?!
When I started this blog I was a missionary in Poland. It was another avenue for people to get to know me and my life there, something other than the periodic newsletters. I'm not a missionary anymore, at least not one living in a foreign country. Since the purpose for which I started this blog is over, am I done?
I guess bottom line I wonder if any of this holds interest. I know I have to figure out what I think and feel about this. If people are reading, don't feel compelled to respond. Of course if you do want to write, please feel free!